Oh god sorry but I really have to rant this out.
If you feel offended by this, this isn't anything against any sexualities, just against people who switch orientations like underwear. To get rid off misconceptions, please read the whole journal or stop reading right here.
I've seen people stereotyping deviantART members for being not straight and guess what?
They are right. Nowadays it's hard to find ANYONE on deviantART who is straight anymore.
Well, actually still many of them are, but they just pretend to be someone completely else and it makes me sick by now.
I mean when there is like every second girl I see on dA is either lesbian or bisexual!? what?!
You guys this makes no sense. I understand when some people are unsure about their sexuality and all.
And I also know that some of them actually ARE bi, gay or lesbian. or pan or transexual or whatever else is there.
I am 100% sure that not all of them are.
See, for some of you it doesn't matter. "I most likely only know my partner over the internet, so it doesn't matter if they have a penis or a vagina"
but this has nothing to do with your sexuality and you're actually HURTING people like this.
It's not a surprise anymore that many people say Homo-/Bi-/whatever- sexuality is a choice of your own.
INTERNET MAKES IT ONE. BUT IT ISN'T
It makes me so sick when I see people change the info on their pages from straight to gay to pan to trans to bi and back to straight.
And even worse is it when they actually are doing this and having a relationship with someone they'd usually never be attracted to, because it's just not their real sexuality but it's their partners.
Wtf? They get so hurt. And those people who do that don't even give a shit because world wide web.
So just to get something straight: (hah get it? straight. omg lame jokes over here.
You are NOT bisexual or anything just because you desperately want to be in a relationship and you give a fuck with who.
That has like 0% to do with your orientation, it is just abusing people who actually feel something for you.
stop doing this for attention
you aren't special when you have any "fancy orientation" (or let's say pretend to)
It doesn't make anyone special.
Just for those who really feel that way and can't do anything about it:
it makes them sincerely happy when they found something because they don't choose it. They just accept it and live with it and they don't decide on it to desperately get attention or a partner.
That's it for now. will add to this if I can think of anything I forgot.
~ Griwi out.